Auntyji

Do you have a question in mind that you're reluctant to ask? Love Matter's sexual expert Auntyji is here to answer all your questions.

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Is menstrual blood so harmful?

My whole family thinks menstruation is evil, especially my chaachi and my cousin. Please tell me whether there is any truth in these rumours at all! Ritupriya (23), Bhopal.

My BF is so possessive, what should I do?

I am in a healthy relationship since two years. I really have a wonderful time with him – he is loving, caring and very soft-spoken. There is no problem except that he doesn’t like my being friends with any other guys.

He comes too soon, what can I do?

My boyfriend comes too soon. He feels apologetic and sheepish about it. I don’t say much, but well, the truth is I’m not so happy with the situation. Is there something I can do, or he can do? – Jasleen (27), Patiala.

How can I convince her to have sex?

Q: Auntyji, my girlfriend is always saying no to sex. I bring it up, she gets upset and we have a fight. Please tell me how to convince my gf to start having sex. Raunaq (23), Ranchi

Auntyji, what if I'm pregnant?

Auntyji, I could be pregnant. I didn't even want to have sex that day, but he was so persistent. I don’t know how it happened. What if it's true? I feel I have some early signs of pregnancy too! My family will kill me and I'll kill myself. Babita (19), Faridabad.

She won't let me touch her – is she not a virgin?

Auntyji, I love my girlfriend and she loves me too. But when I try to get close to her she doesn't let me touch her, especially near her vagina. Is that because she's not a virgin?

My younger brother is watching porn

Auntyji, I recently found out that my 11-year-old brother has been watching porn on the computer. We share the same laptop and I found porn sites in the browser history. Is it normal? How should I deal with the situation? – Aarti (19), Bangalore.

My cousin’s hugs feel weird – am I overreacting?

Q: Auntyji I am in a real quandary, I just don’t know what to do and what is going to happen. When my cousin hugs me these days… it feels different. What should I do?

I like him, but he's of another caste

I'm interested in someone since a few weeks, but he's not of my caste. I always thought I'd marry someone from my own caste – I was also taught so.

Is it weird to be bisexual?

Auntyji, I've had relationships with girls all along. But lately I am attracted to a male classmate. We have even flirted a bit. What’s happening? I don’t think I'm gay because I like girls too. Am I bisexual? Is that weird? Help! Prasoon (21), Pune.

My best friend broke my heart - now what?

I am in love with my best friend. I thought it was mutual so I told him. Last month, when he returned from a holiday, he said he was dating someone else. Now he is ignoring me completely. I am so hurt. What do I do? Sahiba (22), Udaipur.

Should I watch porn with my husband?

Auntyji, I caught my husband watching porn. He says all men do it, but I feel betrayed. What should I do? He even wants us to watch porn together but I don’t like the idea. Should I try it? Aarti (23), Patna.