Auntyji

Do you have a question in mind that you're reluctant to ask? Love Matter's sexual expert Auntyji is here to answer all your questions.

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How can I convince her to have sex?

Q: Auntyji, my girlfriend is always saying no to sex. I bring it up, she gets upset and we have a fight. Please tell me how to convince my gf to start having sex. Raunaq (23), Ranchi

Auntyji, what if I'm pregnant?

Auntyji, I could be pregnant. I didn't even want to have sex that day, but he was so persistent. I don’t know how it happened. What if it's true? I feel I have some early signs of pregnancy too! My family will kill me and I'll kill myself. Babita (19), Faridabad.

She won't let me touch her – is she not a virgin?

Auntyji, I love my girlfriend and she loves me too. But when I try to get close to her she doesn't let me touch her, especially near her vagina. Is that because she's not a virgin?

My younger brother is watching porn

Auntyji, I recently found out that my 11-year-old brother has been watching porn on the computer. We share the same laptop and I found porn sites in the browser history. Is it normal? How should I deal with the situation? – Aarti (19), Bangalore.

My cousin’s hugs feel weird – am I overreacting?

Q: Auntyji I am in a real quandary, I just don’t know what to do and what is going to happen. When my cousin hugs me these days… it feels different. What should I do?

I like him, but he's of another caste

I'm interested in someone since a few weeks, but he's not of my caste. I always thought I'd marry someone from my own caste – I was also taught so.

Is it weird to be bisexual?

Auntyji, I've had relationships with girls all along. But lately I am attracted to a male classmate. We have even flirted a bit. What’s happening? I don’t think I'm gay because I like girls too. Am I bisexual? Is that weird? Help! Prasoon (21), Pune.

My best friend broke my heart - now what?

I am in love with my best friend. I thought it was mutual so I told him. Last month, when he returned from a holiday, he said he was dating someone else. Now he is ignoring me completely. I am so hurt. What do I do? Sahiba (22), Udaipur.

Should I watch porn with my husband?

Auntyji, I caught my husband watching porn. He says all men do it, but I feel betrayed. What should I do? He even wants us to watch porn together but I don’t like the idea. Should I try it? Aarti (23), Patna.

Should I swap sex for promotion?

My boss won’t promote me unless I have sex with him, so he has clearly indicated. Auntyji, what can I do?

Sex during my period – do I need contraception?

I have just started a sexual relationship. My boyfriend lives out of the city and comes over once or twice a month. During that time, I may be having my periods. Is it OK to have sex during periods – like I won’t get pregnant, I hope? And is it actually normal to have sex during periods? Reva, 24 years, Rajasthan

How should I masturbate my girlfriend?

Q: Auntyji, my girlfriend wants me to masturbate her to orgasm. How do I do that? Shyam, Baroda. Auntyji says... Good to know that you care for your girlfriend's pleasure. I will be happy to be your guide – though she will be your best guide of all.