Auntyji

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My girlfriend talks to another guy – should I be jealous?

Relationship problems
Auntyji, my girlfriend has begun speaking to this other guy. She tells me that he’s just a friend, but I don’t trust her. Should I break up with her? Please tell me. Gurinder (23), Ambala

I am attracted to my sister - what should I do?

Love and relationships
Auntyji, I am not very comfortable sharing this, but the truth is I am attracted to my sister. She is a bit older than me and I feel this is not right. What do you have to say about this? A***** (19), Sonipat.

How do I get talking with girls?

Meeting someone
Auntyji, it’s not that I want to flirt with every girl around, but there are some occasions when you find somebody attractive and you want to initiate talk with her. That’s my problem – I can’t initiate. I have no bad intentions either. Sameer, New Delhi

What is the right age to have children?

Unsure about being pregnant?
Auntyji, I am not sure if I am ready for a child. My husband, in-laws, parents and all relatives are pressuring me. Is there something like the right age to have a child? Karishma (24), Nagpur

Is there a right age to fall in love?

Love and relationships
Auntyji, I have been thinking about this woman day and night. I think I am in love with her. But I don’t know if I am old enough to fall in love. Anshul, New Delhi.

I have no orgasms with him – what should I do?

Orgasms
Q: I have amazing orgasms from masturbation but hardly ever with my boyfriend. We often have sex but I have had an orgasm only three times with him. He is very nice but I am not sexually satisfied. What should I do? Neha (22), Dehradun

My boyfriend blackmails me – what should I do?

Relationship problems
My boyfriend is a bit controlling towards me. He tends to emotionally blackmail me if I don't do what he wants me to do. I think it's not a big problem. But I thought I'll ask you anyway. Deepika (24), Bangalore.

How can I get rid of wet dreams?

Male body
I am very ashamed of myself. I think I am a sex maniac. I keep having nightfalls. Seems like I am thinking of sex even while I am asleep. I am so embarrassed by these wet dreams. Can you help me? Anonymous (19), Meerut.

How can I make my wife interested in sex?

Marriage troubles
Auntyji, my wife is not really interested in sex. In fact, she is very distant with me. How can I convince her to have sex with me and be interested in me? Rahul (25), Baroda.

Is masturbation making my semen watery?

Male body
I have been masturbating since I was a teenager. Now I notice that my semen has become very watery and less in volume. Is it because of my old habit? What now? Will I be able to become a father or not? IK (28), New Delhi.

I’m homophobic – so what’s wrong with that?

Sexual Orientation
Q: I know I'm homophobic, but what can I do about it? It's a phobia, just like being scared of spiders. Gay people are just so disgusting, why do I need to like them? Vivek (27), Guwahati

We had sex without condoms, help!

Birth Control
Auntyji, my girlfriend and I had unprotected sex. Now she missed her period. Are these early signs of pregnancy? It freaks me out. What will we do if she is...? Help me, and please take my query asap. Anil (21), Jabalpur.