Auntyji

My boss hits on me. What to do?

My boss is hitting on me. He is a bit too attentive and compliments me way too much. I don’t like it but I’m afraid I’ll lose my job if I say something. My colleagues are beginning to notice but no one has said anything to me yet. Adiba (24), Gurgaon.

My BF wants to copy porn sex – what should I do?

These days my boyfriend has a new bug – he wants us to try stuff from porn films he watches. I am not sure I want to “copy” blue films, is it even possible?! Help me, I don’t want to lose my love over sex! Sonu (24), Secunderabad.

My ex now says he has HIV – am I infected?

My ex-boyfriend just told me that he may be HIV+. He said he was at risk before he met me. Now he wants to take a test. I should too, right? I am so worried, angry, confused and frankly a little afraid as well. SG (27), Delhi.

Should I use Tinder?

I want to use this dating app called Tinder, but everyone has different points of view on it. Is there something wrong with online dating? What is your opinion? Uday (22), Alwar.

Is masturbation a bad habit?

I have a bad habit – masturbation. My friends make fun of me. In fact, I think of sex all day and I feel like having sex with any girl I meet. Do I have a mental sickness? Dhruv (19), Jabalpur.

How do I get a girlfriend?

I’m very sad. I don’t have a gf, I never had one. All my friends have girlfriends. I’ve begun wondering if something’s wrong with me. Help me find a gf. Bala (22), Chennai.

Is it OK to marry my cousin?

I am in love with my cousin, and he too loves me. We want to marry – is that OK? What about kids, will it affect them too? Please guide us Auntyji. Ginny (23) Raipur

I feel like beating my wife – what should I do?

My wife is really controlling and annoying. Sometimes I feel like hitting her because she gets on my nerves. This is so unlike me. What should I do? Satnaam (26), Ludhiana.

My husband is jealous of my job – what can I do?

I just got a promotion and now I am earning more than my husband. Since the time I've received this news, my husband has been aloof. Is he insecure? What can I do? I really want us to be like before. Rupam (24), Allahbad.

My BF won't kiss in public – is he right?

I kissed my bf in public the other day. He’s really shy so he freaked out. Is it wrong to show affection openly? I think it’s cute! I’m in a dilemma – help! Ritika (24), Pune.

Is menstrual blood so harmful?

My whole family thinks menstruation is evil, especially my chaachi and my cousin. Please tell me whether there is any truth in these rumours at all! Ritupriya (23), Bhopal.

How can I get involved in gay activism?

Auntyji, I really feel horrible about how LGBT people are treated. I’m gay myself and I always wanted to change things, but to be honest, I don’t have the guts. What should I do? – Pawan (22), Indore.