Auntyji

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My smart gf makes me insecure - what's your advice?

Relationship problems
Auntyji, my partner is good at everything she does. I feel worthless in front of her. What should I do? I don’t want to break-up. Satinder (26), Ambala.

Can gay couples have kids?

Sexual Diversity
I am a gay man. I can’t get married but I love kids. Can I adopt? Kadam, 26, Darjeeling

I only have clitoral orgasms – is that OK?

Orgasms
Auntyji, I can only orgasm with clitoral stimulation. It’s fun but is getting dull. My partner and I miss the excitement. What’s wrong with me? Can you make sense of it? Anju (24), Baroda.

Is it ok to have a sexual fling before marriage?

Making Love
I will soon be marrying a man my parents have chosen. Before I get married, I want to have sex with another man, who I like but do not want to get married to. Is this dangerous? B, 24, Kanpur.

Can homosexuality be cured by medicines?

Sexual Diversity
Can homosexuality be cured by medical treatment? If, yes, how and where can I find the treatment. Anmol, 21, Sikkim.

How do people become hijras?

Sexual Diversity
Hi Auntyji, a hijra came to my place the other day. How do people turn into hijras? Akshara, 18, Amritsar.

I am a boy but feel like girl. Do I need surgery?

Sexual Diversity
I have a male body but I believe I am a girl. Do I opt for a sex change surgery? *Sagar, 18, Mumbai.

Gay or straight hota kya hai?

Sexual Diversity
Hi Auntyji. At school, my friends were talking about being gay and straight. What do these terms mean and is one better than the other? Sanya,15, Chandigarh

I like a girl in my class. How can I get her to kiss me?

Love and relationships
There is a girl in my coaching class. She always sits with me and we regularly exchange notes. How can I convince her to kiss me? Ranjan, 19, Samastipur.

I just finished school and my parents are forcing me to get married. Help!

Marriage
I just finished my school (class 12). My parents are forcing to get married. What do I do? Sadhna, 18, Phulwari.

I fantasise about my wife’s friend while making out with her, is it ok?

Making Love
Hi Auntyji, I fantasise about my sister-in-law or my wife's friends while having sex with her. I do not think sexually about them otherwise. Is this ok? Chaitanya, 29, Ujjain.

My fiancee had a bf earlier. Should I be worried?

Marriage
My fiancee says she had kissed her ex-boyfriend. How do I know they didn't go the full way? I am stressed and unsure whether to carry on with this engagement.
Jacob, 28, Kerala.