Auntyji

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How can I change my gender?

Gender Diversity
Auntyji, I was born with male body parts but I am attracted to boys. I don't feel like a boy or a man. I want to be and live like other girls. What should I do? Ajit (22), Gurgaon.

I'm so lonely, how can I stay faithful?

Marriage troubles
Auntyji, my husband is in the army. He is posted at the border. I live alone and it is killing me. I don’t want to cheat on him. Please help! Smita (26), New Delhi.

How can my friend forget about her Khatna?

Female body
Auntyji, my best friend informed me that she was cut when she was young. She feels hurt now and wants to forget about her Khatna. Please help us! Sara (26), Bhuj.

Will my friends judge me for talking about sex?

Making Love
I find sex really pleasurable and have sexual fantasies. But I cannot discuss it openly with my friends. I think they'll judge me for being too sexual. Prachi (24) Indore

My wife’s period is late, but I’m not ready for kids – help!

Unsure about being pregnant?
Auntyji, my wife’s periods are delayed. I don’t want a child yet. I am just not ready for many reasons. Please help as soon as you read this. Senthil, (25), Panjim.

How can I quit being a sex worker?

Safe Sex
Auntyji, I am a sex worker. I do it to support my family but I’ve begun feeling terrible. I want to quit this and find a proper job. Please help! Sheela (19), Orissa.

Is it okay for girls to masturbate?

Making Love
Auntyji, I have heard from many people that girls who masturbate are dirty. But I like to masturbate, it makes me feel good. What should I do? Jeju (20), Allahabad.

Why can't I have intercourse with my girlfriend?

Sex Problems: how to overcome them
Auntyji, I enjoy foreplay a lot but cannot have intercourse with my girl. When the right time comes, I simply back out. What’s wrong with me? Natraj (23), Jaipur.

My fiancé wants me tested for HIV – should I agree?

STDs/STIs
Auntyji, I am getting married. My fiancé has asked me to get tested for HIV. He says everyone should get it done before marriage. I am too shocked. Riya (23), Orrisa.

In love with my married friend - should I tell him?

Love and relationships
Auntyji, I began chatting with my ex-classmate recently and have developed feelings for him. He is married and belongs to Muslim religion. Should I confess my love to him? Alice (26), Aligarh.

Is it OK to have sex without being in love?

Making Love
Is it wrong to have sex without being in love? I like a girl and we’ve had sex a couple of times but I feel guilty and judged. Please help! Tushar (23), Kolkata

I look ugly, please help me!

Our Bodies
Auntyji, I just hate my body. I am neither fat nor skinny but I look ugly. I have stopped going out or talking to anyone. Please help! Raman (22), Ludhiana.