Auntyji

Do you have a question in mind that you're reluctant to ask? Love Matter's sexual expert Auntyji is here to answer all your questions.

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Can I date an HIV+ person?

Auntyji, I’ve been dating a girl. We get on really well and it’s almost reached that next level. But I have just found out that her ex was HIV+. I am terrified now. What if she is too? Can I really continue in this relationship? Samarth, 24 , Mumbai.

My husband is a sex addict. Help!

My husband is a sex addict and asks me to do acts that also hurt me physically. I am unable to talk to anyone about this. What should I do? ABC from XYZ.

My bf wants us to have sex but I am not ready!

Hi Auntyji. My boyfriend has been trying to convince me to get physical. But I don’t feel quite ready yet. I can see he is beginning to get irritable. What should I do? Meena, 19, Jaipur.

Is masturbation unhealthy?

Hi Auntyji, I masturbate and I get to hear of all kinds of side effects... Is masturbation really harmful to men's health? Cherian, 22 years, Mumbai.

Can a marriage work without sex?

Hi Auntyji, I am not interested in sex but my family is piling pressure to get married. What should I do? Neeta, 26, Delhi

My periods are irregular. What should I do?

Hi Auntyji..my periods are very irregular and I am constantly worried. Is something wrong with my body? Please help me. Seher, 20, Delhi.

Our horoscopes don't match, can we still marry?

My boyfriend and I love each other. But our parents aren’t agreeing to us getting married because our horoscopes don’t match. What should we do now? Minal (24), Agra.

Do pickles really go bad if touched during periods?

Hi Auntyji, we live in a modern world but every now and then I find myself battling over myths and taboos – periods mein achaar nahi choona and all that. Especially for girls, the list seems to be unending. It’s exhausting. Should I just give up? Gunjan, 21, Noida

As a girl, is it ok for me to seek information on sex?

Hi Auntyji, being a girl I feel very shy and uncomfortable to ask information on sex, body and things like that. I feel these things are not meant for girls. But I have many questions. What should I do? Poonam, 20 years, Indore.

I am too shy, will I ever get a girlfriend?

Hi Auntyji.. I am quite chatty in general but get tongue-tied in front of girls. I am clueless about how to start a conversation. Can you please help? Raghav, New Delhi, 22 years

How do I tell my partner I find all the love-dovey acts exhausting?

Hi Auntyji, my partner demands a lot of gestures of care and love and says it is important for our sexual intimacy. But I find them exhausting. Are they really that necessary?

My gf is not a virgin. Help!

Hello Auntyji, I can’t get it out of my mind that my girlfriend is not a virgin. What should I do? Raghav, 24 years, Indore.